• Harry Derbitsky

Ep. 02 - What is on the Addiction Minds?

Updated: Sep 12

Guest, Christine Heath, Executive Director of Hawaii Counseling and Education Center, leads a group discussion on WISDOM and TRUTH about QUESTIONS ON THE MIND OF THOSE WHOM ARE ADDICTED—PART 2.


Part 1 is on our YouTube channel, https://youtu.be/-oYSln6pXeg.

Part 3 will be on our YouTube channel in October, 2019.


Q & A on Bad things, Free will, Losing the feeling and Coaching tips.


TITLE: WISDOM and TRUTH about QUESTIONS ON THE MIND OF THOSE WHOM ARE ADDICTED


QUESTION 1: I HAVE DONE SOME REALLY BAD THINGS, HOW CAN I EVER FEEL GOOD KNOWING THAT?

  • Pretending or feeling bad about oneself is not good. You need to ACCEPT what happened, but understand that your wisdom is the way to transformation. That was the best you could do then, but now you can choose to live a life of love and being of service

  • Getting an understanding and experience of the 3P does not negate anyone from “falling for thought

  • Your feeling are coming from your own thoughts

  • You must always be open to going deeper and deeper. When a memory comes in, watch yourself do that—it’s EGO

  • Change is easiest when we do nothing

  • 3P is easier and more fun than existing hardworking, disease models. They are trying to be OK rather than seeing we are OK via a moment of clarity

  • You can find FREEDOM because it is already there

  • RECOVERY is when you let go of your thinking and understand you are OK

  • Don’t take life so seriously. It’s not a big deal—leave it behind.

  • Should be no shame to the relapse. Innocence of a human being is natural

  • Christine hardly talks to her clients about drinking, she talks from and about the beautiful feelings, and that's what helps her clients. They quit because they do not think about it

  • People misuse their stories

  • The worst part of addiction is feeling bad because we are still doing it

QUESTION 2: HOW DOES “FREE WILL” WORK IN THE FIELD OF ADDICTION and the difference between free will and willpower?

  • Free Will is a gift of Thought. Magic happens and wisdom is released

  • Thought is a great illusion

  • Willpower is trying to control yourself after the fact—it’s overthinking and that you haven’t tapped into your Spiritual power

  • Free Will is already there. We know it is there—you can feel better than you feel right now, and you are innocent

  • Free Will means you understand you don’t have to do anything, except feel God's Will

  • All we have are the 3P and Free Will, and it comes down to the right or wrong use of Free Will

  • WE ARE ALWAYS IN THE SPIRITUAL REALITY—THAT’S FREE WILL. It is beyond words

  • Christine said SYDNEY BANKS taught—Look inside and touch your Consciousness, and when you look around, you will see a different life.

  • Free Will is our connection to the Spiritual Reality—it has to include YOU


QUESTION 3: WHY DO I FEEL BETTER AFTER MEETING WITH SOMEONE OR LISTENING TO SYDNEY BANKS, BUT THEN LOSE THAT FEELING AND USE AGAIN?

  • Memory has no life. In the moment, we can get a great feeling—coming from spiritual essence means just having fun in your life

  • Power of your Insight—You recognize your own innate well-being

  • Release that thinking and seek peace of mind from alcohol etc.—what we felt was us at the core

QUESTION 4: COACHING TIPS

  • Go deeper inside yourself, with a clear mind and really listen to what you are missing

  • Don’t concentrate on solving the problem. Clients are using that to beat themselves up

  • It is the client’s own wisdom that will wake them up

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