Ep. 02 - What is on the Addiction Minds?
Updated: Sep 12, 2020
Guest, Christine Heath, Executive Director of Hawaii Counseling and Education Center, leads a group discussion on WISDOM and TRUTH about QUESTIONS ON THE MIND OF THOSE WHOM ARE ADDICTED—PART 2.
Part 1 is on our YouTube channel, https://youtu.be/-oYSln6pXeg.
Part 3 will be on our YouTube channel in October, 2019.
Q & A on Bad things, Free will, Losing the feeling and Coaching tips.
TITLE: WISDOM and TRUTH about QUESTIONS ON THE MIND OF THOSE WHOM ARE ADDICTED
QUESTION 1: I HAVE DONE SOME REALLY BAD THINGS, HOW CAN I EVER FEEL GOOD KNOWING THAT?
Pretending or feeling bad about oneself is not good. You need to ACCEPT what happened, but understand that your wisdom is the way to transformation. That was the best you could do then, but now you can choose to live a life of love and being of service
Getting an understanding and experience of the 3P does not negate anyone from “falling for thought”
Your feeling are coming from your own thoughts
You must always be open to going deeper and deeper. When a memory comes in, watch yourself do that—it’s EGO
Change is easiest when we do nothing
3P is easier and more fun than existing hardworking, disease models. They are trying to be OK rather than seeing we are OK via a moment of clarity
You can find FREEDOM because it is already there
RECOVERY is when you let go of your thinking and understand you are OK
Don’t take life so seriously. It’s not a big deal—leave it behind.
Should be no shame to the relapse. Innocence of a human being is natural
Christine hardly talks to her clients about drinking, she talks from and about the beautiful feelings, and that's what helps her clients. They quit because they do not think about it
People misuse their stories
The worst part of addiction is feeling bad because we are still doing it
QUESTION 2: HOW DOES “FREE WILL” WORK IN THE FIELD OF ADDICTION and the difference between free will and willpower?
Free Will is a gift of Thought. Magic happens and wisdom is released
Thought is a great illusion
Willpower is trying to control yourself after the fact—it’s overthinking and that you haven’t tapped into your Spiritual power
Free Will is already there. We know it is there—you can feel better than you feel right now, and you are innocent
Free Will means you understand you don’t have to do anything, except feel God's Will
All we have are the 3P and Free Will, and it comes down to the right or wrong use of Free Will
WE ARE ALWAYS IN THE SPIRITUAL REALITY—THAT’S FREE WILL. It is beyond words
Christine said SYDNEY BANKS taught—Look inside and touch your Consciousness, and when you look around, you will see a different life.
Free Will is our connection to the Spiritual Reality—it has to include YOU
QUESTION 3: WHY DO I FEEL BETTER AFTER MEETING WITH SOMEONE OR LISTENING TO SYDNEY BANKS, BUT THEN LOSE THAT FEELING AND USE AGAIN?
Memory has no life. In the moment, we can get a great feeling—coming from spiritual essence means just having fun in your life
Power of your Insight—You recognize your own innate well-being
Release that thinking and seek peace of mind from alcohol etc.—what we felt was us at the core
QUESTION 4: COACHING TIPS
Go deeper inside yourself, with a clear mind and really listen to what you are missing
Don’t concentrate on solving the problem. Clients are using that to beat themselves up
It is the client’s own wisdom that will wake them up